Big Thing They Called Marriage

Hi my dear, did the tittle remind you something sweet? As for me, it did. A romantic comedy film from Thailand titled Crazy Little Thing Called Love. If you haven't watched it yet, go for it! Ive found the trailer at youtube for you here.

Back to the topic, have you decided to marry someone? I did it last year. Why? Because I wanna get married at age 24 lol. But let me tell you that age really should not bother you in your final decision. I mean, if you are 20 and ready to share every little thing with one man/woman, its okay. If you are 25 and you like being single its really okay. If you are 30 and your life is dedicated for the sake of your mom and dad and your brother sister and of course for yourself, you are awesome. Others might said that you should married before 30 cause blablabla but your life is your only choices, dear. Cause this decision is an after life long.
How big is marriage? Big enough for me, up to the level that i should quit my job and move to other (far away) city. That means i will live separated from my family and my friends. Huwaww. Deep breath. Its okay, i can handle it. I am a big girl. I used to travel far alone like a lost kid. This time i will live far away with my husband so it will be really okay insyaallah.

Six month in perantauan and how do I feel? Hmm lets talk about being in rantau next time okay. And about quitting my job, seems like until now, a full time house wife and pengangguran is not really into me. Id like to call myself a freelancer. lol.

Second big thing about marriage is I should show my whole feeling with just one person. I should let him in my mind (my heart, you don't say) every second. If you are not ready to express every little thing in your life, you are not ready to marry, baby. And for me I still need time and learning how to show 100% of me to my husband. Its okay, marriage is never ending learning kan?

The next thing is being number two in his life after his mother (and family). Alhamdulillah I got no problems with mother in law nor brother and sister. I love them. Some couples has this issue and yeah if you cant solved it, it will bother you till the end. Till the end. Till the end. Imagine Squidword annoyed by Spongebob lol.

These things are really challenging you know. It needs our big heart to accept our husband entirely.

Lesson to learn

Preparing your mental before married is important. But most of all, prepare your heart, dear. Be strong, be patient, be kind, and be responsible of your choice. 

Enjoy the process and enjoy your life, dear! 

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